Education – Forest Kindergarten

April 30th, 2010 § 1

A few months ago one of my childhood friends who had moved back from the US to Hong Kong after walking the stage in 2008, decided to quit his job. He had always been very passionate and talented in music, he loved little kids and had a big heart. Understandably he did not like his job in the banking industry, and was sure he wanted to do something, anything, for our future generation – education! 

Recently we found time to catch up over gchat (thank you Google!) and he told me how he had begun doing some part-time work at a children’s music/education center, and how he had been brainstorming ideas as to how this whole education dream of his would come to shape. We talked about concepts, ideaologies, which countries did it better, what places needed to see education reforms, and then I remembered having seen an article in the New York Times some time ago called Forest Kindergarten. At that time of reading, it struck me as something real, something that “made sense’! Why should our children be cooped up in classrooms, and learn about trees, flowers and animals from picture books or at best videos, when everything was just right out there!!

Excerpt from article:

Here in Saratoga Springs, the children crossed into the forest at midmorning, greeted by the rich smell of earth and leaves. A fallen branch had created an arch to climb through as if they were entering a hidden place straight out of a storybook.

Trails had been worn through the thickets. An old stone wall ran through the center of the trees toward huge tepees the children had built from sticks and vines.

Everywhere, there were things to discover. A branch balanced on a split tree trunk became a seesaw. A teacher sawed thick stumps into logs the children used to bridge bogs. A pit became a monster house, complete with boys standing in the rain shouting warnings: “You don’t want to come over here! You’ll get smushed!”

Piper Whalen, 5, turned toward her own treasure: an enormous fallen tree. She climbed on and lifted her arms. “I’m riding a roller coaster,” she said. “Come on and ride with me.”

The raindrops continued to fall until, finally, it poured, hard enough to splash though the canopy of trees. The children were delighted.

“It’s wet!” exclaimed one.

“My hair is getting a drink of water!” another said.

Piper began to laugh. She stuck out her tongue and turned her face toward the sky.

Nathaniel Brooks for The New York Times

Education has always been something close to my heart. I suppose it has everything to do with the fact that my parents never ceased to stress the importance of learning, and more so to enjoy the process of doing so. I have always loved reading, loved people-watching, and as a little kid I would often find myself on the subway going to and fro school just looking at people. Now that I’ve been in Beijing, China for four years already and have every desire to return here, or to remain in close proximity (perhaps somewhere around HK/Asia?) once I am done with graduate school, I find myself thinking more and more about the importance of education for children in terms of availability and quality, especially education in China. What do children here need? What is best for them? What can we learn from those who have gone before us? What can we learn from the like-minded?

End Rant (for now).

Ending 2009 in a Globetrotter Way

December 16th, 2009 § 1

I’m thankful that we’re halfway through December and only another week till Christmas!!

A month of the year which is usually quiet to the point it’s almost uneventful has been very different this year. Apart from the days when I’m sitting at my desk picking at my brains, churning out one plan after the next…plans for what program we want to do next year, milestones we want to set, things we want to see happen, frankly it’s been hectic.

The world famous Harlem Globetrotters were in town last week!!! It wasn’t till almost the last minute when I had to scramble and organize two community events for those guys to come to, one in Beijing and Shanghai. But I won’t say more, because I knew the scrambling would be well worth-it, and it was… the best part was seeing how the children at Care For Children loved the poinsettias we got them!

MERRY CHRISTMAS CHILDREN!!!!!

Luke 2:8-14
8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. 12. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” 13. Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, 14. Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.”

Venue: Care For Children Center, Shunyi, Beijing
Time: 12:30pm, December 8, 2009
Participants: 3 Globetrotters, 10 students at Care For Children, 70 students from Dulwich Elementary, lots of teachers and parents

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Cheryl turns 14 with the Globetrotters @ Care For Children

 

Children at Care For Chidlren and the Globetrotters

Children at Care For Chidlren and the Globetrotters

Dulwich children with the Globetrotters

Dulwich children with the Globetrotters

Venue: Shanghai Children’s Medical Center, Pudong, Shanghai
Time: 3:00pm, December 19, 2009
Participants: 4 Globetrotters, lots of in-patient and out-patient kids and their parents, a dozen SCMC hospital staff

Children trying to pick-up some basketball tricks!

Children at SCMC trying to pick-up some basketball tricks!

Little girl clings on to Globie

Little girl clings on to Globie

Habitat for Humanity in Qionglai, Sichuan

November 25th, 2009 § 1

Knowing that most people are more into photos than words, I’ve split up my recap to Qionglai, Sichuan with Habitat For Humanity into two posts. If you’re only in for the photos – well, this is it! But if you genuinely want to know more about what happened while I was in Qionglai… click on Building For Hope

 

Old friend… 

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New friends…

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Vivian and Christine, two lovely and gracious ladies Shaz and I met

 

5D was absolutely THE most awesome team on site

5D was absolutely THE most awesome team on site

 

half of team 5D - once again, symbol of awesomeness

half of team 5D - once again, symbol of awesomeness

 

Working… HARD!!

doing what we were best at - the human brick-passing chain

doing what we were best at - the human brick-passing chain

 

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making myself useful

 

my favorite job... climbing up the mountain of bricks

my favorite job... climbing up the mountain of bricks

 

once again, making myself useful

once again, making myself useful

 

Slacking (c’mon, we’re human too okay!)…

 

nom nom nom who knew mortar was so delish!!

nom nom nom who knew mortar was so delish!!

 

"here leti, try some! it's better than pure gold."

"here leti, try some! it's better than pure gold."

 

sharon was stressed but it's really okay

sharon was stressed but it's really okay

 

Pure camaraderie!

 

only the best team - 5D

only the best team - 5D

Mementos… 

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Impossibilities Inspire

November 6th, 2009 § 1

I know it might be strange or out of context to quote from a TV soap opera but then again, those were written by people in the flesh and blood too , so there are perhaps things which carry a degree of truth. Coming back from Hong Kong last night I decided to catch up with Grey’s Anatomy (Season 6) and the episode was about a neurosurgeon operating on a patient with an inoperable tumor which would either kill him, or leave him as a quadraplegic the rest of his life.

Below is what he told the neurosurgeon before he was put under…

“There is always a way. When things look like there is no way, there is a way. To do the impossible, to survive the unsurvivable, there is a way. And you, you and I have this in common, we are inspired. In the face of the impossible, we are inspired. Today, if you become frightened, instead become inspired.”

Strangely, or amazingly… it reminds me of the courage our forefathers of faith had in the face of danger, of impossibilities – Moses, who had to deal with “ye of little faith”, King David standing in front of Goliath, Paul in the face of persecution, Peter being ridiculed and so many more!

In the face of the impossible, become inspired! :)

One too many…

October 27th, 2009 § 0

This past summer, countries and islands across Asia were shaken up by typhoons, tsunamis, earthquakes and not to mention the internal crises many places were dealing with because of political and social unrest. So many natural disasters happened within a matter of just months from north to south, east to west, that at some point…  people grew tired and weary, people were simply at a lost, people as in both the survivors and relief workers, did not seem to know where to begin the long and demanding works of disaster relief.

In Taiwan, there was typhoon Morakot which struck the island on August 8.  Directly translated from Chinese, it is now referred to in Taiwan as the “8.8 Water Disaster”. Morakot was the deadliest typhoon to impact Taiwan in recorded history, leaving 461 people dead and 192 others missing, most of whom were feared dead. The slow moving typhoon also led to widespread destruction in parts of China as well as the Philippines.

After Morakot, there was Parma, and then there was Ketsana. Then there were a few earthquakes, tsunamis in the Somoan Islands, in Indonesia here and there. We all asked – how much more can we take? How many more can we lose?

On September 28, I left for Taipei to prepare for our big game – this time, my focus was on doing something good for the kids affected by Typhoon Morakot. Yet even while I was there, news of post-disaster destruction kept hitting home. I found this photo in the pocket of my diary this morning and remembered that I had cut it out from the papers and kept it with me, to remind myself the faces of these children.

Typhoon Ketsana

Sept 29, 2009 Captioned photo in the International Herald Tribune

It hurt. It hurt a lot. We were only helping 80 children in Taipei and not even touching the surface of the matter. So it was then that I was reminded – it will always hurt, because no matter how much more I do in this life time, it will never be enough for those in need, for those in pain, for these children.

To My Mother

October 23rd, 2009 § 1

Ironically, or should I say coincidentally, after my previous posting on the story of Chelsea and her family – my family wrote our fall episode of cancer scare.

My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer in April 2006 but thankfully, by God’s grace, it was diagnosed in the early stages and with the help of Auntie Viv, a late family friend who was also fighting cancer, she immediately contacted her doctor and Mom went into surgery the following day. Results of the biopsy came back shortly and doctor said it was benign. (Alleluja!)

Mom underwent extremely extensive surgery and 3.5 years later, we still feel for her everyday when she has to fight through the post-op side effects of numbness in her fingers, muscle aches and pains, osteoporosis, etc. The latest checkup results which I received the same day I posted the story about Chelsea, is that her cancer-cell index is on the rise. It has been rising 3 times in a row in the past 12 months and she is at 14/25 now. As long as it is under 25, she is safe. She is a fighter/survivor of breast cancer, and still has 18 months (4 checkups) to go before the doctor can declare her cancer free – and even then, we will ask, what next? 

As much as I have devoted a huge amount of energy, passion and heart to help underprivileged children, I questioned myself for not having had the courage to fight for cancer, to fight with Mom. Something must be done, something HAS to be done.

Last night I spoke with Eric, a friend of Emily’s who is in the same Mandarin program at Tsinghua, a young man whom I took a strong liking to the first time I met him a few weeks back. Over the course of the past few weeks I’ve spoken to him online a few times, finding out more about him and his heart for humanity and social causes. It’s so apparent that the Lord is definitely going to do great things through this young man!! 

Eric participated in the Texas 4000 Ride this past summer and when I asked him what spurred him to join this ride… his answer was simple, “to encourage — i had a free summer, i have an able body.” Amen to that. 

I have an able body, what can I do? I want to love more, to do more.

As an encouragement to my mother – I am changing the theme of my blog to Breast Cancer Awareness. A few days ago I came across an article where the author said, “I wonder when we can finally change it from ‘Breast Cancer Awareness Day’ to ‘Breast Cancer PREVENTION Day’.”

Counting Down with Chelsea

October 20th, 2009 § 1

One of the habits I’ve had in recent years is that each morning after my usual quiet time I would spend a few minutes browsing through news on the other side of the world. Just as I’m about to start a new day, someone, somewhere on the other side of the world… is winding down after another long and hard day.

This morning I came across a piece of news headlined He’s in the Army now, published in the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel. It’s especially heart wrenching because looking at my own family – my Dad was the rock and fortress of my mom’s life when she was fighting cancer. Instead, I was the one who left home…

To imagine two people who have journeyed together over two decades and having to part because of the harsh reality of life. This – is pain.

“Chelsea, start counting down till the day your Father comes home.”

Love – from the eyes of children

October 16th, 2009 § 1

The source of this article below is unknown but I was fortunate enough to receive it via a forwarded email, something that never fails to bring a smile to my face every single time I read it.

Bundles of Hearts

Bundles of Hearts

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, “What does love mean?” The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” Rebecca- age 8

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy – age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl – age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” Chrissy – age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri – age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny – age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily – age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka – age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle – age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy – age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy – age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare – age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris – age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann – age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren – age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) Karen – age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark – age 6

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica – age 8

And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry”

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1Cor. 13:4-8.


The journey begins…

October 14th, 2009 § 1

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From the eyes of a child (Ning Jing School, Changchun)

The idea of setting up a blog (again) came about before the summer as I was thinking of something that was original and personal for my mom’s 60th birthday, and not to mention in line with the whole tech theme that had been the buzz for months leading up to her birthday. Sadly, we got her a netbook, but that website/blog for her never happened.

The busy summer months did however provide fresh ideas and deeper thoughts on where I want to see my CSR career continue expanding and growing into. Very early on even as an intern I already knew that CSR was something I could do for a life time and would never get bored of doing. Over the past five years while working on dozens of community outreach projects at the league, amongst the various focus areas – children and education were always my favorite hands down.

This deep reassurance of continuing what I’ve been doing and allowing myself to grow even more, with the hope of collaborating with friends with the same heart and mind for children, gave birth to this site - weheartchildren.com

In this line of work, I have met so many amazing people with nothing but big hearts, those who have a strong sense of responsibility towards the bigger cause of humanity, or simply those who want to help, to make a difference in someone else’s life. To all of these angels who have made a mark on my heart – thank you for teaching me about love! 

It is my dream and wish that not only will I grow in love and passion for what I am already doing, but to also grow in knowledge and empathy so I can know even better what these children genuinely need. After all… in all that we do, it’s all about the kids!